Assisting the Student Who May be Suicidal
Facts about suicide
Although suicide is a rare event, it is the second leading cause of death among college students.
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Suicidal states are often associated with major depression, a combination of acute anxiety and depression, post traumatic stress disorder, and bipolar disorder.
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People who are suicidal often tell people about their thoughts or give clues to others about their feelings.
Some factors associated with suicide risk are:
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Suicidal thoughts
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Pessimistic view of the future
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Intense feelings of hopelessness, especially when combined with anxiety/feelings of alienation and isolation
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Viewing death as a means of escape from distress
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Previous suicide attempts
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Personal or family history of depression or suicide
A student who is suicidal and who confides in someone is often ambivalent about suicide and open to discussion.
Students who are at high risk usually have a specific plan, have a means that is lethal (e.g., medication, knife, gun) and tend to be or feel isolated.
What You Can Do
Call 828.227.8911 if the student is in immediate danger to him/herself.
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Talk to the student in private.
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Remain calm and take the lead.
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Take a student’s disclosure as a serious plea for help.
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Ask the student directly about feelings and plans.
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Express care and concern. Assure the student that you will help him or her reach a professional.
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If the incident occurs during business hours, escort the student to Counseling and Psychological Services located in the Bird Building.
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Call 828.227.8911 to access emergency services on weekends or after hours.
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If you feel overwhelmed or unprepared to help a suicidal student, call the Office of Student Affairs (828.227.7234), which will maintain your confidentiality and arrange a meeting with that student.
AVOID
Minimizing the situation. All threats must be considered potentially lethal.
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Arguing with the student about the merits of living.
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Allowing friends to assume responsibility for the student without getting input from a professional.
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Assuming the family knows that the student has suicidal thoughts.
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Discussing the student’s personal or family history of suicide attempts.









